I think there comes a time in everyone’s life when we have moments of clarity regarding past behavior. That aha moment when we see ourselves going down that road again and we do a break check fast and hard. I am the child of an abuser. I was my […]
Inspired by my childhood friend and Marilyn, the most beautiful woman I have ever had the honor of knowing in my life. I think at some point in our lives we all believe this. It is the ego of our youth. As we age life experiences show us […]
I recently saw an article about infidelity and forgiveness. It made a lot of sense, telling him to leave her alone. I have never been able to forgive him for it. I have never forgiven myself for staying in the mind games and control he held over me. […]
Incase you forgot: No, we are not getting back together. We may talk, but I am not going to date you or screw you Just because I am still single does not mean I am available to you. Badda bing Badda Bang Badda BOOM! I hope that clears […]
How many second chances does a partner receive before it is over? How do you know when it is the last second chance? The last opportunity you are giving to that one person in your life you just do not want to give up on? The one you […]
The known is normal, it feels comfortable and you know what to expect. The unknown can be scary. It is new and possibly borderline chaotic feeling because you do not know what to expect. As long as you do not over think it, that is. Ending a dysfunctional […]
Jealousy, a necessary human emotion, or one that is taken to the extreme, causing more harm than good. This human emotion is not just a man or a woman issue in romantic relationships. It can present itself in sibling rivalry in families or in friendships. Usually there is a real, […]
